carryyour-heart asked: You are stunning. :]

Not at all! You are, though. I checked out your blog. I do the same thing, with the dresses. XD

(Source: hi-imcaitlyn, via yourstodestroy)

thecavernwillcavein:

Dear Dom: if you’re going to judge people, make sure you judge everyone by an equal standard. The playing field has to be even for everybody, no matter who they are. In general, this is something I’ve struggled with for the past little bit. It goes hand-in-hand with a new method of thinking I’m developing (or embracing, as it were) so hopefully writing it out will be a (somewhat) tangible reminder to myself.

This. It’s so hard not to judge some people. I used to judge all the time, and then stopped myself and asked myself why that was okay. I wouldn’t want to be judged right away. So, I stopped. I stopped until I got to know them, and learned how they were. And even then, I didn’t judge. I’d just forget, and accept how they are. Why can’t people do that with other people? Accept. With their flaws. Problems. Accidents. It’s not fair. 

Then there’s other problems. Even when you do accept those people, you can only listen to them and understand what they’re saying. They can never understand you on a level you speak on. And no, I don’t mean intelligence or any crap like that. I seriously cannot find anyone whom I can just sit down and talk with on a daily basis that can relate to me in the same way I can relate to them. It’s almost always one-sided. It’s miserable. Lonely. It’s like watching a movie, and you’re thinking, ‘well why the hell didn’t she grab a fucking weapon?!’ or something. The movie isn’t gonna be like, ‘lol because then it would ruin the story, don’t you think?’ It’s just going to keep rolling. That’s how people are. Like movies. They just keep rolling. There’s no spot for you, or your ideas, or your input. Nothing. You’ll be stuck in your own head. You’ll drown in those thoughts. Share them all you want, but they’re going nowhere. It’s an empty world. I’ve lost hope that there are other people out there that can understand what I’m talking about on emotional levels, or even observational levels of anything. You’ll be stuck in your own head with nothing but those thoughts you will never share willingly. Forever. And alone.